DUNIA YA WAJINGA NA MASHAMBULIZI YA WELEVU! October 21, 2006
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Approaching Women – How To Get Started
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***QUESTION***
David,
I have read your e-book. I think it’s great, but
questions always arise. I have been dating a woman
for five weeks. We’ve had several wonderful dates.
She’s a really sweet girl, and I think there is a
lot of potential. We have spent the night together
three times, but have not yet had full
intercourse. I give her oral sex every time and
always bring her to orgasm. When I told that I
wanted to have full intercourse with her, she told
me that she doesn’t do that right away. She said
she usually does not get naked with a man, but did
so with me because she likes me. We discussed our
feelings about sex, and I have never pressured
her.
I always aim to please her sexually. She is
definitely enjoying what I do for her, and I enjoy
doing it for her. Unfortunately, she hardly
touches me or does anything to satisfy me
sexually. How should I interpret and handle this?
I have been considering gently guiding her hand
when she gets to the right location, but I’m not
sure if this is a good approach. I may even talk
to her about it, but I’d rather her advance on me
without my prodding. Should I hold off on giving
her oral sex? My intuition tells me that doing so
would not be very productive. Do you have any
suggestions? E.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
DANGER! You are rapidly approaching the WUSS
ZONE!
One thing that you DON’T want to do is TELL A
WOMAN THAT YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH HER!
Why not? Because you’re GIVING AWAY ALL OF YOUR
POWER when you do that.
That’s what ALL men want from her… don’t make
me come over there and shake you!
You say that you have my eBook. I want you to
QUICKLY open up the bonus booklet that came along
with it called “Sex Secrets”. Inside you’ll read
what to do.
You need to get her turned on more… to the
point where she’s ripping your clothes off. Don’t
just give her pleasure like Mr. Wussy… that’s
old. She can get that anywhere.
You need to be different. You need to build
anticipation and amplify the ATTRACTION. If you
don’t you’re probably going to find her getting
bored of you because you’re so predictable and
boring.
Trust me.
***QUESTION***
Hi Dave, I need your help !!!
My situation is this….. When I go to clubs, I
donât have to much problem going over to a girl
that I like, so it isnât a lack of confidence. But
after a short space of time I find myself
struggling to keep the conversation going and
start asking the boring questions like, Where do
you come from ? How long have you lived there ? Do
you drive ?
BORING……. What the hell do you ask a girl you
know nothing about ?
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yes, you do need my help.
The answer is simple:
STOP TRYING TO KEEP THE CONVERSATION GOING.
As soon as you start talking, END the
conversation.
Say, “It was nice meeting you, I’m going to get
back to my friends…” then turn away. Quickly
turn back and say “Hey! Do you have email?” If she
says yes, pull out a pen and paper and say “Here,
write it down… I’d like to talk to you again.”
It’s really not that difficult.
The problem in busy, crowded public situations
is that there are WAY too many distractions.
You’re competing with music, loud drunk people, or
whatever else is around. It’s like trying have a
meaningful conversation at a baseball game.
Instead, get the info, and move on. If you
follow up with a charming email, you’ll hear back
50%-80% of the time (in my experience).
And for GOD SAKES… STOP ASKING BORING
QUESTIONS! You’re not on a job interview. And
neither is she. Boring, lame, typical questions
only position you as an average dork.
***QUESTION***
Dave,
Great advice you give, i used to be one of the
wussy guys, being nice and always there for the
girls, but i’ve been using c&f lately on new girls
i meet AND ones i already knew. it works. Really
well. im no longer the ‘nice guy’ to them.. im the
guy they all talk about. But i have a problem..
ive learnt the hard way once… and since moved
on….now the problem has presented itself again
:/ here it is…:
I get to know a group of absolute gorgeous
chicks.. and i want them all… so… i bust on
them all… nothing wrong there.. everythings
going fine… later down the track though… they
all want a piece of me….. anything wrong with
that? NOT AT ALL!!! first time this happened i
blindly dove in.. hooking up with all of them..
not all at once unfortunately…one thing wrong
though… they find out about each other and all
of a sudden im the sleave bucket they never want
to see again…. WHAMO! now there were some
hunnies in this group dave, and i wanted more than
just once off’s with them.. ALL of them!! but
noooo… im the bad guy now. ( i can see their
point really but come on) NOW, being the Jedi
Master… i know you have the answer to my problem
as the situation has popped up again with a new
group… im seeing one at the moment but her
friends are to hot to leave alone… i use c&f on
them and they love it but i see where this is
going.. the same way as it did before….. am i
writing to much here?? anyway.. back to the
point….. How can i avoid the same thing
happening? im sure you can see my situation… is
there a way of having…. can i say sex on here?
or shall i say shag.. ill say shag…. how can i
shag them all with out them getting bitchy about
me sleeping with the others too?? now donât go
accusing me dave of being greedy… i know you’d
have been in this situation before. i need your
wisdom and quick!!
Thanks again man, you’ve helped me ten fold.
JF.
AUST.
P.S. im not re-reading this to see if it makes
sense.. ill leave that up to you heheheh.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yeah, my heart really goes out to you. I’m
feelin’ ya. It must be tough.
I’m going to have to make an educated guess on
this one.
I’ll bet that it’s not the fact that you’re
sleeping with all of them that’s the MAIN
problem… it’s probably that you didn’t make it
clear up front what was going on.
They probably feel like you were trying to HIDE
the fact and they CAUGHT YOU sneaking around on
all of them…
When, in fact it doesn’t sound like that’s what
you were trying to do.
Remember, perception is more important to most
people than reality. And if a woman perceives that
you’re trying to deceive her, she’ll shut you
down.
I’d recommend that you figure out how to make
sure that all of the women you’re seeing know that
you’re at least seeing other women that they know.
You don’t have to get into specifics, but if
you want to prevent the “you’re a sneaky bastard”
problem, then you might want to diffuse the
situation before it BECOMES a situation.
Women will accept you for whatever you are…
but they don’t like it if they suspect that you’re
trying to pull the wool over their eyes.
***SUCCESS STORY***
David,
How are you man? I bought your book and I really
like what you’re doing. I’ve found your research
to be right on point! Anyways, I have some notes
from the field for you and your readers. This is a
perfect example of the “unaffected and crassness
towards a beautiful chick” behaviour you wrote of
in your book. I was at a local club the other
night and I found a place at the bar where I
noticed a lot of girls were going to get served.
So I and my friends went right to that spot and I
just sort of planted myself against the bar in a
slouching yet confident kind of way. Just playing
cool and unaffected by any beautiful chick going
past but still making eye contact with them. Well,
inevitably a beautiful chick and her friends
slides up to my left. I of course look over my
shoulder at her and tell her my drink preference.
She said something about how “I should be buying
her a drink”, and I said “yeah that’ll happen”
very sarcastically. So the dialogue went on and of
course I was wearing out the whole cocky & funny
thing and busting on her, it was working like a
charm of course. I even at one point was asked buy
her friend to pass a napkin and I did that little,
she reached for it and I pulled it away bit
several times, which although very basic was
cracking her up. Needless to say, this hottie that
i had initiated conversation with was all about
rubbing her titties all over my side that was open
to her, my back! I thought of the most cocky thing
I could say that was subtley sexual and as she was
rubbing those nice titties of hers all over me, i
looked her in the eyes and said, “you really need
to stop doing that!” Well, she looked at me is
such disbelief that it seemed no man has ever even
slightly suggested that she not rub her tits on
him. Which obviously has in fact never happened.
Needless to say she was eyeing me all night but I
had to move on to another hottie, from Sweden, and
later in the night I saw her dragging around by
hand some big chump that she probably just met but
when she walked past me with her “boytoy” those
eyes of hers were shouting “f–k me, please!”
Well that’s it for the story keep up the “good
struggle”, Adam “el cholo”
P.S. (do you think that your research is just as
valid for use in Latin American countries such as
Mexico?)
>>>MY COMMENTS:
To answer your last question first, I get
emails from guys all over the world who are using
these techniques… so my guess is that they’re
fairly universal. I’m sure that there’s a culture
somewhere that isn’t friendly to it, but I haven’t
heard about it yet.
And as for your story… I LOVE IT!
It’s a true Jedi level maneuver to bust on a
woman for doing something that any other man would
pay money to have done.
It’s confusing, and, when done right, MAGICAL.
Keep up the great work. You should have 10
female stalkers in no time at all.
***SUCCESS STORY***
Dear David,
You are the man. I just want to share a little
success story with you. I’ve been practicing the
cocky and funny routine online and I must say it
works like magic. I talked to this one girl for
only an hour, I kept up the cocky and funny
routine the whole time, she asked for my number
and called me 10 minutes later. We arranged a
meeting and it went great. I stayed in character
all night and even got her to come back to my
place. We had a very passionate and heated little
session (no sex but damn close). I can barely
remember the last time I even kissed a girl, but
now I think I’m starting to understand what I was
doing wrong for such a long time. You are
absolutely right when you say that it is the
CHARACTER and not the material that attracts
women. This girl couldn’t get enough. I teased
her all night and never let up.
Unfortunately I must have turned into a WUSSY
boy at some point between the hot and heavy
session at my place and when I dropped her off.
I’m not really sure what happened. I’m thinking
maybe I screwed up by calling her the next day.
She was screening her calls obviously and never
called me back. I waited a week and tried again
with a well thought out message. I thought it
was a good message but now that I think about it,
it was cocky but NOT funny. I wasn’t feeling the
character. She messed up my self-esteem and it
was probably obvious in the message. But I’m over
it and now I say FORGET HER, move on to the next
one. That’s the only way to get better, is by
learning from our mistakes and making a game out
of it. Because that is all it is to them , A GAME.
We just have to know how to play.
Thanks David. YOU RULE.
C.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
You’re OK… you’re doing fine. And let me echo
a comment that you made (which came from me, of
course), because it’s SOOO important:
“…now I think I’m starting to understand what
I was doing wrong for such a long time. You are
absolutely right when you say that it is the
CHARACTER and not the material that attracts
women…”
You MUST get into the right CHARACTER in order
to make this whole male-female-ATTRACTION thing
work. You need to play the ROLE correctly.
In fact, if the CHARACTER is right, you can
actually screw up a lot of the specific technical
things (calling too soon, saying Wuss-Bag things,
etc.) and still have great success.
But, if the character is WRONG, then you’re
going to have a very hard time making things
work… even if you are using ALL of the
techniques correctly.
Thanks for your email, that’s such an important
point.
***QUESTION***
HER: “If you think I’m going to sleep with you,
after you’ve spent the last couple of hours
teasing and taking the mickey, think again!” ME:
No answer, just a slight smile… (Six months
ago, SuperWuss would’ve said “But honey, please…
I was only kidding!”)
One hour later, in bed: HER: “I don’t want to just
be another one in your harem, you know!” ME:
No answer, just another slight smile, and a kiss
on the neck. (Six months ago, SuperWuss would’ve
said “But honey, you know I really really respect
you and love you….”) Five minutes later, her
legs are locked around my waist:-)
You know Dave, I’m in an incredibly funny space
right now: I am CONSTANTLY saying to myself
“Jeez… Did I just get away with saying/doing
THAT???” LOL I’m having the time of my life, and
it’s all thanks to you. I’d like to meet you in
person one day, and shake your hand! Anyway, my
question: Every guy’s been in this situation,
you’re walking out somewhere with a beautiful
girl, and some other guy (or guys) makes a whistle
or ‘Hey baby’ comment to your girl… What’s a
good C+F response to this? What I’m concerned
about is using the situation to make the girl MORE
attracted to ME, rather than putting down the guy.
Part of me wants to tell the guy to butt out and
mind his own business/get his own girl etc. but
I’m aware that not only will this possibly make me
look like an insecure, jealous asshole, but could
also get me into a potentially dangerous situation
that would ruin the good evening I have planned.
On the other hand, I worry that no response at all
may look like I’m a mouse not a man! I thought
about saying to my girl “Damn! I wish these gays
would just leave me alone!”, making out it was ME
the guy was hitting on, but I’m not sure if I want
to put the idea I’m gay into her mind LOL. What do
you think? regards,
R London UK
>>>MY COMMENTS:
GREAT question.
Well, remember, every situation is an
opportunity to INCREASE THE ATTRACTION.
These are great opportunities to position
yourself in her mind in a way that sets you apart
from all other guys.
What would most guys do in this situation?
1) Get insecure and jealous.
2) Start a fight.
3) Pull the woman closer.
4) Act intimidated.
Your idea is great… making a joke out of it
by suggesting that the guy is trying to pick you
up.
Another idea is to just keep walking without
even paying notice to it, then a moment later
commenting “Don’t you just love the way typical
guys act? Classy, isn’t it?”
This, in effect, lumps other guys into a group
and sets you apart from it.
By not reacting at all to other men’s advances,
you also show that you’re not easily upset.
I think that if you let things upset you, that
you open yourself to manipulative behaviors that
involve getting you upset.
Much better to smile and not let things get to
you… because the irony of it is that if you let
things get to you, they will.
***COMMENT FROM A WOMAN***
I am a lady and read your spam for the fun of it.
Boy are you all wet and not dry behind the ears
yet when it comes to knowing how to attract a
lady. I suppose you do all right attracting the
ugly ducklings that want to be your door mat.
Making fun of the way a lady is not attractive, it
just shows what a rude jerk you really are and
have no manners. Faking being busy on the phone is
one of the oldest tricks in the book and all women
are wise to it. If you were truly busy, you would
not have called in the first place and women know
this. Waiting a certain length of time to call is
just ignorance. Out of sight, out of mind is the
way most women think about men, when you snooze,
you loose.
Darlin, get real… head games are a definate no
no, honesty is in, or has it been so long since
you have attracted a lady instead of a door mat
you don’t know this. Women have more brains than
men and all women know we are sitting on the world
men are trying to win, so being rude and making a
real pain in the butt out of yourself may get you
a door mat but never a lady.
Keep your nonsense flowing, us women get a real
good laugh from your advice on how to score. The
old saying sure holds true with your writing,”
Those who can do, those who can’t write a book on
how to”. haha!
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, I guess you told me!
Here’s what I heard you say (my
interpretations, of course):
1) Waiting to call a woman back is a bad idea, and
if you don’t call her immediately then she’ll
forget you and not want to ever see you again.
2) Women are smarter than men.
3) Women are “sitting on the world men are trying
to win”, which I’m assuming means what you have
between your legs.
4) That you believe I promote “being rude” and
“faking being busy”.
OK, where do I start?
I don’t know, but I have sneakin’ suspicion
that you share the CRACK PIPE with the STONED
woman from last week. Don’t tell me that you’re a
base-head too?
Well, I guess you asked for it, with your off-
the-handle emotional rant… so here goes. (Can
you believe that I get to have this much fun…
and call it work?)
So, you think that waiting to call a woman back
is a bad idea, huh?
And you think that if you don’t call her back
immediately that she’ll have forgotten you… and
just not be interested.
This is an interesting line of thinking.
If you’re high.
Look, it’s soooo commonly known that it’s not a
good idea to call a woman the moment after you’ve
met her that even guys who have never seen the
movie SWINGERS know not to do it!
Yeah, I see. I think that from now on, I’ll
just ask women for their cell phone numbers, then
call them right after I walk away. I can say,
“Hi… it’s me! Look over your left shoulder! Here
I am! [Waving my arms around]”
That would be cool.
I’d make fun of this idea more, but I have a
minimum of three more incredibly stupid ideas of
yours to bust on…
So, you think that women are smarter than men,
huh? Your exact comment was “Women have more
brains than men”. You know, this is genius level
thinking. It’s probably because you’re smarter
than me that you actually know this.
I’ll bet, though, that because you’ve smoked so
much CRACK that you’ve killed enough brain cells
to make us at least EQUALLY “brainy”. Just a
hunch.
I think you took a step down the wrong path
with this comment.
And then you started RUNNING FULL SPEED down
that same wrong path with:
“…all women know we are sitting on the world
men are trying to win…”
Do me a favor… next time you send me an email
like this, send me your address so I can PAY YOU
for your contribution. I wish I could come up with
stuff like this myself.
I see that you’ve written me an email, so you
must have access to a computer (just a guess). But
it seems to me that you must be pretty new to the
Internet, because you obviously haven’t figured
out that any man can get online and within 30
seconds be looking at beautiful naked women for
free.
And, if they really have a mind to not have to
listen to your mouth AND AT THE SAME TIME “win”
the “world” that women like you are sitting
on, ALL THEY HAVE TO DO IS FLY TO VEGAS AND GET A
CAB OUT TO THE CHICKEN RANCH!
This is 2006! It’s not the dark ages.
I feel like I can speak for most of the guys on
this newsletter when I say that we would like to
meet women who are emotionally stable, friendly,
happy, financially together, etc. (I don’t expect
you to be able to identify with this
description…
don’t worry about it.)
It’s not our desire to just “win what you’re
sitting on”.
We don’t have to anymore. We improve ourselves
in this area because we WANT TO. We’re not
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